This is the framework from which they operate when it comes to love. She may look like a bum that’s not going anywhere in life, but guess what, her ambitions are going somewhere in life. I’m not talking about Mercedes or BMW’s, but nice enough. Regardless of their age, they tend to be in the top ten of the best looking people in any room. Whether you agree with this or not, this is the reality of the Taurus mindset. You occupy a certain level in society in terms of respect, that kind of thing. To the Taurus, that’s not being superficial because the material leads to higher things like spiritual fulfillment, emotional depth so on and so forth. Among all earth signs, the Taurus is one of the most driven and solid materialist sign. You have to make sure that you have the right job, you have to have enough money for retirement, you live in a nice house, you drive the right car, people look up to you.The majority of Taurus women are actually quite ambitious in their own right. The problem is if these are your only criteria for judging your dates, you are really setting yourself up for a disappointment.The reality is that a lot of millionaires only become millionaires once they hit their 40s.I spoke with two coaches who channel their psychic powers to give insight to their clients about what could be in store for them: Deborah Graham, spiritualist, reader, advisor, psychic relationship coach and the star of TLC/Discovery Network's The Psychic Matchmaker and r While I wish I was able to meet with these experts in person, we had readings over the phone that surprised me with how accurate they were and how much insight they were able to detect.Though of course naysayers will comment on my major Google-ability as a dating writer, I tried to keep an open mind — and more importantly, an open heart — as I listened to them detect my future love life.
While Graham quickly zeroed in on an ex-boyfriend, that after being broken up for four years, still contacts me from time-to-time, Whelan talked about my dad.
Winners, at this stage of the game, are few and far between. In many cases, for example, the typical Cancer personality, somebody would look like they’re really well-put together on the outside, but when you truly know them, you notice that they’re basically made out of gelatin inside. In many cases, the guy might look like a complete failure and screw up on the outside where this person can’t seem to do anything right. Unfortunately, when you go about dating this way, you end up dating caricatures. In many cases, he doesn’t even commit because time and the dating market is on his side.
They have all these emotional issues and you basically end up in a co-dependent relationship where you basically babysitting this person on a deep emotional level. But deep down, there are already ingredients that lead to a very promising future. In many cases, the appearances that you see are actually appearances that you choose to see. You’re not really dating the real person for who he truly is, instead, your dating that person based on who you think he is. Why should he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free?
Each time I do — on those lonely sobering Friday nights — I almost instantly regret it because I feel so burnt out of endless swiping.
Their advice is to simply live my life and fill it with all of the things that bring me joy and happiness.
First things first, I've always been a fan of psychics.