If you are very successful in your professional life, you got there with hard work, perseverance and stepping up to the plate when the time was right.Guys, if you want to play the lottery or wait to get lucky, I’ll let you in on something.Watch the entertainment news before you go out to see what people are talking about in regards to music and movies. Ask questions to prove that you are paying attention and share related stories you have on the topic of conversation.The other person is probably a little uncomfortable flirting too, so make him or her feel at ease.She wants to lose herself in the bedroom, and a shy man is not going to allow her that privilege.The good news is, there are a few women who like shy men. It is time to get yourself out there and live life.Wear clothing that makes you feel good about yourself.Style your hair in a way that you think is most flattering on you. Most shy people are not comfortable in tight or revealing clothing, so don't think you need to wear it to make yourself get noticed. Shy or not, most people can tell if a person is not being genuine when they're flirting.
Start off by pretending you have confidence in your flirting abilities, and eventually that confidence will become real. This will keep you from having the cat who ate the canary grin.If you are looking for a job, do you just sit around waiting for companies to realize that you would be a great employee?Or do you go out there and contact employers, telling them about what an asset you would be to their company?Get yourself out there and get comfortable talking to both men and women. I don’t care what you have to do to get comfortable, but do it. Try to go on slow nights: Sunday through Wednesday.