There's nothing insecure about being honest about how much you appreciate something about a person, or something that person did. 9.) Instaflirting: You may be familiar with the joke, "How much does a hipster weigh?An Instagram." With the fastest image/text feed of any social network right now, Instagram is quickly becoming a dating site, not just a way to show the world what you ate for lunch.If you still have suspicions, trust your gut and get rid of the person. "/"I have no game with women right now." These types of messages come off as needy and insecure.Living in a state of distrust is no way to be happy.8.) Don't fish for compliments. On the other hand, do offer compliments if you truly mean them.When you’re starting to date someone new, a great way to let this person know that you’re thinking about him or her is by texting to show that he or she’s on your mind.
"It was such a long text, I just figured you were hammered, so I didn't repsond." My text was three lines. This is not your novel.4.) Do not be passive-aggressive.You might think something is funny that really isn't and you are more likely to cross boundaries that shouldn't be crossed.You can try the Drunk Text Savior App or delete certain numbers from your phone when you know you're going to be partying. Get a second opinion from a trusted friend, or if the text really bothers you, reply with something neutral and then bring it up to your date in person.3.) Keep it brief.Then of course, there's the obvious: Texting rather than speaking your true feelings is the ultimate passive-aggressive move.5.) Do not define a relationship over text. With words, sexting can be very exciting (hey, I'm a writer).Do not make any declarations about a relationship over text. Text is not an appropriate medium for these types of discussions.6.) Sexting: OK, you may think, everyone does it. Verbal sexts engage the imagination and can be a way of connecting with your potential partner in a thrilling way with relatively little commitment.
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